A Letter From My Favorite Childhood Toy

A post by writer Dreamshadow/Sue: On my fifth birthday, I received the best present ever; my very own Cabbage Patch Doll. I named Judy (Not her given name but the name I called her), she is the blond in the … Continue reading

The Dream Date

Dating In Your Forties (Part 2) While I’m anxiously waiting for my date, my mind starts to wander. What will he be like, am I dressed appropriately; where will we go? I knew I shouldn’t have let him choose.  Does … Continue reading

Crappy Ass Men

At one point or another in a woman’s’ life, each of us has had at least one CRAPPY boyfriend.  Don’t get me wrong, BAD boy types are fun, BUT they also seem to come with their own special flaws. I … Continue reading

Dating In Your Forties

This post was written by Lady or Not…Here I Come guest writer,  Dreamshadow59 aka Sue. Dating in your teens, twenties, and thirties is fun and exciting. Dating in your Forties…TERRIFYING!  I’m serious, think about it.  You’re “middle age” now( God … Continue reading


Now I’ve Heard Everything



Recently, I broke my ankle. I was in the Hospital for surgery which generated an overnight stay.  Before I go any further, let me just say that I have GREAT insurance. In FACT, It’s SO good, I rarely ever have to pay for ANYTHING. I mean NOTHING!!!  In all fairness though, I DO pay astronomical insurance premiums.  In fact, they could probably keep an entire COUNTRY afloat for 30 days.

Anyway, the bills stared to roll in and per usual. ALL the bills charged were paid in full. You could see a smile run from ear to ear after each bill I opened.

I continued opening more bills for the usual things like the ER, X-Rays, Dr. bills etc, when I opened the Mother Load of ALL bills. It was designated as ROOM and BOARD…SERIOUSLY??? Where was I staying, at the Hilton? Just take a guess at how much this one day stay was for “Room and Board”?

If you guessed 10K, you would have been right. I was floored! Ten thousand dollars…REALLY??? “For WHAT?!”, I shouted out load to no one. I mean I wasn’t staying at the Bellagio Penthouse Suite in Vegas. I was having my temperature taken and blood pressure measured every 4 hours. Did I even SLEEP? I don’t THINK so.  MAYBE, if they gave me gourmet food cooked by Cheff Gordon Ramsey, served with actual silk napkins…but NO. I had rice and beans with what appeared to be a meatloaf hidden behind the plate.

HERE’S the thing, They (The Ins. Co.)not only paid the 10k, they paid the Hospital 20K.  Now, I KNOW how to read a bill so when I saw this it made me angry. I got on the phone, called the Insurance Company to see WHY or if this was just an error. When I finally got to speak with a REAL person, I received a  ridiculous answer.   Even though the Hospital ONLY charged Ten Thousand dollars for the “SERVICE”, SOMETIMES the Insurance Company pays more to ensure that the Hospital is providing he BEST of CARE. Are you KIDDING ME??? Can you even BELIEVE this? Now I’ve heard EVERYTHING! I hung up the phone in total disgust and swore never to be sick again.

Until Later…


Truth or Dare

This post is written by our guest writer Dreamshadow59 Truth or Dare, one of the most fun and deadly dating games known to man.  The only other games that are CLOSE to this one would be fast paced drinking ones, … Continue reading

Broken Ankles For Dummies—Post by Dreamshadow

Post by Dreamshadow–Guest Writer   I don’t like to brag, BUT I have NEVER broken a bone…until NOW. Yup, that’s right, the streak has been broken and old Dreamshadow has gone down in the playbooks of life like Casey At … Continue reading