Say What?

As you may or may not know, I’m re-entering the dating game after a quarter century hiatus.  This may seem like a long time, but . . . oh hell, who am I kidding, it is a long time.  But … Continue reading

Gentleman or Not… Here I Stay #21: Men’s Movie Rules

Movies are a common choice for dates, which is curious, especially for first dates: There’s no better way to get to know each other than sit in the dark, not talking to each other. Movies rule, but there are rules … Continue reading

Gentleman or Not… Here I Stay #16: Where to Find Your Next Date

Dear Jason,
I have been trying to find new places where I can meet decent, attractive, single women. I’ve been told that grocery stores, libraries, and church are the best alternatives to the bar scene. As someone who is obviously an expert on women, where do you advise I go?

Desperately Dateless

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It’s Too Late Now! It Won’t Count.

If you’re a man, and lost your virginity, you know this phrase.  It translates to: No win situation. “It’s too late now.  It won’t count.” This is the phrase uttered by every female in existence.  I am sure even female dolphins … Continue reading

Blogtoberfest: Glossary Challenge

Tiff @, challenged me to write “Blog Readers and Writers – A Glossary. What, precisely, are the differences between fans, followers and stalkers?” As the notorious Lady of Lady or Not…Here I Come, I do deal with a plethora of different readers of … Continue reading

Blogtoberfest: Relationship Privileges

There are certain privileges that should come when you’re in a steady, committed relationship. Those privileges should never be revoked or used as a weapon unless the relationship has met its conclusion. Rule #1: Women should never ever have to interact with bugs if you’re around.  You can save or kill … Continue reading

Blogtoberfest Dream

I procrastinated so much on my Blogtoberfest/Becca forgot to be funny post today, that you get to hear about my love affair with Johnny Depp. If you know me in person, you know that I have never really seen why women are so hot … Continue reading

Becca-ism: Conflict Management

I am unsure, but I am guessing that some of you may have had a conflict or two in your lifetime. I don’t know about you, but when it happens to me, it is because the other person is wrong. … Continue reading

Blogtoberfest: Ugly Cry

I bet you dudes have had the following moment.  Your lovely lady has insisted that you get some chick flick…worse yet, you use your Netflix video for Beaches.  You’re feeling great about yourself because you know this boosts your bankrolled … Continue reading

Blogtoberfest Scary Story

Yay we’re up and running!  Here is today’s post all links should work now! I would like to thank for participating in our fun series!  Check out the blog by clicking the link! I have a fiction scary story for today: … Continue reading